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Blinded

I remember a time my heart used to skip from the whisper of your voice Now my heart won’t flutter from the static produce out your mouth I wish I could rewind the hands of time Because I really wanted to be your bride You told me no Rejected my love You left me sore to my core   I try to smile to not reveal my feelings Making my face feel like a heavy coating of foundation These tears glide over my cheeks Silently, I cry myself to a peaceful sleep   Dreaming of being in your arms In my thoughts it doesn’t feel so good My heart is stoned For lack of better word, emancipated Because my pain just won’t go away   I lusted every part of you You didn’t want me   My mind accepted My heart rejected For my flesh waddles in anger refusing to hear anything but ‘Cause I was blinded by lies   I wish I could rewind the hands of time   Blinded  

Children's Corner

Children's literature is a safe and fun way to encourage a child's imagination, to improve a child's communication skills, and build a child's interpersonal skills. Below are some books I read to my children in their growing years. What are your favorite children's books?    Always movin' On: The Life of Langston Hughes   Baby Signs My Daddy Longlegs  Somebody's Dog  The Adventures of Peter Cottontail Who's A pest   

Meeting A Man

FAQ: When is the right time to meet a man when you have children?  Honestly, the best answer I can muster, is when you value yourself enough to know you are a total package .  FAQ: Am I a total package without the biological parent involvement? Yes, you have children by ANOTHER man, but the dynamics of that relationship did not work and it is unrepairable.  FAQ: What to do when I am ready to date? So, here you are seeking a companion who is man enough to handle what your past relationship could not. Lets be frank. That strain relationship fell strain for a reason rather the relationship was on the brink before children or the weight of responsibility of children was the straw that broke the camels back, your past relationship failed. As a result, you do not have to stay single. Conception of children by a man does not mandate your stay. FAQ: Why do structure of relationships matter? Just to give insight on myself, when I conceived children with the men that were in my life, the deliver

Over Labels

As single moms we have to do what we have to do in every aspect of our lives to generate income and have a healthy social life to sustain our mental strengths in reference to juggle bills, babies, employment, and people. All of which will exhaust even the professional organizer. Sometimes, the human body will overload or overwhelm. My experience as a single mom vary from a high of desire to be out on the town to no desire to be bothered at all. Single motherhood is a give and take commitment to empower and educate. However, I acquired the knowledge to balance my energy so that it is equal between myself and the world to prevent the feel of burnout when it is time to focus on what matters.  Accept the reality of motherhood- the world will mold itself. Motherhood does not come with a manual! The beginning phase of motherhood will be rough. If you have love ones to navigate motherhood with you, trust me you are blessed! Join a social group, have play dates, girl's night in or out, an

Fruits and Veggies of Life

  While, my children are nearly at their pre-teen stages of life the gifts of motherhood are abundant. I'm blessed with the opportunity to see my children grow from foundations I have instilled in them from a small person point of view, such as:  How to love How to care for themselves  How to articulate their feelings  How to communicate  How to get through one day to the next  My motherhood has been quite a journey as it has required me to grow as a person. My circle of friends changed because some friends did not have children. My world became demanding. When I had children it was no longer just about me. I'll admit, at times caring for two small children at the age of 21 made me sad not because I had children, but because of who, what, when, and how. I wasn't able to run off with my friends as I once did. I wasn't able to have normal conversations over the phone without babies crying in the background. Sometimes I had to put the person on hold to quickly car

Welcome Aboard

Welcome to MommyNMeTours Blog where the blogging experience is to promote a community of mothers in network. I hope MommyNMeTours bring comfort to you (mommy) in your despair of the ever-changing world of motherhood that consist of bloopers and gains. This blog will offer short activity, passive income resources, poetry, reader's digest for children and adults, open dialog, and online sells.  Feel free to comment to postings. Feel free to ask questions. Feel free to post in relevance.